Love Finds You When You Least Expect It
You may have heard about the all-encompassing love—a love that transfixes you. The kind of love that you step into a voyage for, searching for that “right” person. But somehow, the most potent form of love is the one that finds you when you least expect it.
Let’s discuss.
When You Least Expect It
What is the secret behind the thrill of unexpectedly falling in love with someone?
The unforeseen encounters, the magic in the air, and the feeling of butterflies overwhelm you and make the whole experience intoxicating. But perhaps there is something more to it. If we compare it to the love you pursue and are on the lookout for, there is a notion of shallowness, a feeling of neediness associated that takes away the beauty of the unexpected.
When you are not looking out for love in the first place, there is a sense of contentment in being alone. And this is where the magic happens. People often mistake love for a phenomenon that completes two individuals. As romantic as it may sound, overreliance between partners is a flawed concept.
Love is when two complete individuals meet, and an inherent chemistry takes place—the spark that is so romanticized in novels.
What to Do When You Find It?
But only finding your unexpected love isn’t enough. In life, happily ever afters are never handed to you. This is another misconception among people, thinking their relationships are supposed to be effortless, just like meeting the individual was a seamless experience. Natural chemistry is important, but it can only go so far.
Every relationship is like a tree that needs to be nurtured to bear fruit.
Here are three dos and don’ts you need to take care of when in a relationship.
Dos
- The Chase: Most couples often doubt their relationship when the “honeymoon” phase ends. The solution is simple: Never stop chasing your partner’s love and approval
- Acceptance: Always remember that there will be times when things may seem stagnant in a relationship; that is okay. It’s about being comfortable in each other’s silence as much as the laughs and giggles.
- Be Grateful: Not everyone gets to say they found their “love by chance.” Hence, make your partner feel valued. When there are arguments, be kind to them. When the going gets tough, communicate with each other.
Don’ts
- Take Them for Granted: Just because you “found” your love doesn’t mean it can’t go away. Don’t take your partner for granted; make sure they feel special with you.
- Walk Away: It can be very easy to walk away in an argument or when you are not clicking with your partner. It may make you think that you aren’t compatible with each other. Know that every relationship has flaws; the key is to have faith.
- Disrespect: The basis of every healthy relationship isn’t love or kindness but respect. Ensure you respect your partner’s boundaries if they are taking their time opening up with you or wish for privacy.
At the end of the day, it isn’t all too complicated. However, two particular protagonists in M.J. Powers’ book will have their unexpected equation put to the test. As Maddie Bennett crosses paths with the alluringly arrogant and delectably handsome Jared Stirling, her world is flipped upside down. Being a businessman with a bad reputation, Jared proposes to help Maddie’s father rejuvenate his business on one enticing condition. A fake marriage may be in the works. And maybe Maddie wouldn’t mind being Unexpectedly His after all. Delve into one of the most passionate adult romance books and enjoy the emotional rollercoaster ride—now available on Amazon.
